i've just realized that, you don't really have to search for that special someone. nor would you have to be obliged of forcing yourself of finding that someone. no, wait, i've thought/realized about this a thousand times already. hahaha. it just proves that, we do get dumb when we fall in love/are in -love. but i'm not in-love with anybody as of now okay.
yeah. i believe that we don't really have to look for someone to love, that it is fate's work and we don't really have to meddle with it. because i just had this comparison between finding someone to love (read, desperately looking for someone), and having a "coincidental" (read, someone you have known by chance - "fate") person whom you unexpectedly fall for after.
i just thought that if fate has led someone into our lives, that there's a bigger chance of having a long-term relationship with that person, than force-ably loving someone. (duh.) because we'd have time to really know that person, and that we wouldn't be hastening our decisions on loving that someone. though, there are times that we'd really make a bad decision. maybe we didn't really had much time analyzing the situation that the both of you are in.
uhh... because there are people who are afraid of not having someone in their lives, of not having any love-life, thus having to be forced to love someone just for the sake of having a "partner". therefore, losing the essence of having a true meaning of a 'mutual' relationship. not realizing that they'll get hurt more and that their hearts will be shattered often (into really minute bits). then and only then, after those thousand heartbreaks will they learn how a real relationship works. that we don't really have to force ourselves when there's no one to be loved. yeah. we'd feel lonely, but in that solitude we'd have time in our hands to focus on ourselves and carefully choose or rather analyze people that fate bring us, and that we can sort those people who are really qualified, and those who'd just want to use us just for sex. because in love, we have to choose/be with a partner who would care for us, who'd be willing to spend most of their time with us, who'd love us unconditionally...
ulk... i'm not making any point here, am i? i just felt pathetic all of a sudden...
why am i talking about love anyway? love is too complex/broad to be discussed. hay.
another day... just breathe gelo, breathe.
yeah. i believe that we don't really have to look for someone to love, that it is fate's work and we don't really have to meddle with it. because i just had this comparison between finding someone to love (read, desperately looking for someone), and having a "coincidental" (read, someone you have known by chance - "fate") person whom you unexpectedly fall for after.
i just thought that if fate has led someone into our lives, that there's a bigger chance of having a long-term relationship with that person, than force-ably loving someone. (duh.) because we'd have time to really know that person, and that we wouldn't be hastening our decisions on loving that someone. though, there are times that we'd really make a bad decision. maybe we didn't really had much time analyzing the situation that the both of you are in.
uhh... because there are people who are afraid of not having someone in their lives, of not having any love-life, thus having to be forced to love someone just for the sake of having a "partner". therefore, losing the essence of having a true meaning of a 'mutual' relationship. not realizing that they'll get hurt more and that their hearts will be shattered often (into really minute bits). then and only then, after those thousand heartbreaks will they learn how a real relationship works. that we don't really have to force ourselves when there's no one to be loved. yeah. we'd feel lonely, but in that solitude we'd have time in our hands to focus on ourselves and carefully choose or rather analyze people that fate bring us, and that we can sort those people who are really qualified, and those who'd just want to use us just for sex. because in love, we have to choose/be with a partner who would care for us, who'd be willing to spend most of their time with us, who'd love us unconditionally...
ulk... i'm not making any point here, am i? i just felt pathetic all of a sudden...
why am i talking about love anyway? love is too complex/broad to be discussed. hay.
another day... just breathe gelo, breathe.
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