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Why is it that most homosexual men are into sex? Either it’s unprotected, protected, kink, group, one on one, and so on… why are they into such lust fest? Yeah, I’ve met guys who are decent enough not to have sex with me on a first date and I really like that in a man, that only means that he respect my being and he respects me sexually… But why do most of the gay people so promiscuous? What gets them going on having sex day after day? Sure, not all of them are man whores and doesn’t benefit from it financially. Gay man whores get laid and gets the moolah, while ordinary gay men gets only satisfaction (some relationship start from this and ends up sooner because the foundation of their relationship is just based on their partner’s sexual activity.) Or is it only satisfaction that they’re after? I know that they are searching for something to fill the void within them, but why choose sex when they can do a whole lot of other things besides that? Truly, they can’t fill in that ‘void’ with hours and days of sex with other people (stranger or fuck buddies “FUBU”). There is totally more to life than just sex. You don’t always have to crave for sex… why can’t you just respect yourself, your body, and the people you interact with and not always think about sex?I have been living this alternative lifestyle for almost 5 years now, and to tell you honestly, I’ve went through that certain phase in my life that I thought that being gay was just about the sex. Yeah, the first few years of my life being gay were like that… I was blinded by lust. I was succumbed to the everyday temptation of sex. Truthfully I say you this that it (sex) is really that accessible and that easy to just have sex with anybody that you want. But as I live every single day of my life, reflecting on the things that I do, it made me realize that being gay isn’t just about that. I know that I was randy at that time, but certain things made me realize that respect for my sexuality and my being is far more important than that of the satisfaction that I get from having sex with people. I’ve realized that I have to respect people for who they are and not use them to my advantage. I learned to have respect for myself, my body, and most important of all, I learned to respect other people, because you can’t gain respect if you keep on disrespecting others. You have to give respect to other people for you to gain respect. And I think that the same goes with the rule of karma that what you give is what you get in return. I know that we homosexuals are being discriminated and disrespected because most of us are more likely to be promiscuous, so most heterosexuals think that we’re that easy, we’re that loose for them not to respect us. And I think that it’s totally wrong for them to do that. Because whatever we do, whatever our sexuality is, that we deserve to be respected. But in order for us to gain that respect we have to respect our fellow gays and straight brothers and sisters.How could we ever reach that utopian dream of ours, to be united with the heterosexual society, if we keep on disrespecting others?Honestly, there’s more to life than these temporary highs (like what Stacie Orrico said from her song ‘there’s gotta be… more to life.’)Your sexuality is far more important than just enjoying sex casually. Why can’t it be that bicurious guys delve into reading or talking to a peer regarding their curiosity and not find out about their sexuality by engaging themselves into having sex with the same sex?Your intelligence is far more important than having casual sex with other guys. Why not engage in something more cerebral than wasting your time having sex? Yes, sex is great, but only if you do it with the right person. I mean, with your partner, boyfriend, spouse, soul mate or whatever you call your lover or significant other.Try to think of these: that while you waste your time engaging on a one night stand with some cutie you brought over from a gay bar you went to that night… another gay man gets abused by hets and gave him a black eye to remember them by. Discrimination/Hate crime… a teenager gets abandoned by his parents because they couldn’t accept him for who he is… two lovers in an argument, his partner hit him again just like the other night they got into an argument. Domestic violence… A ‘fabuloushly’ gay man shouting at another gay man. Eyeing him, bullying him, judging him for what he is. Discrimination against fellow homosexuals… a homosexual who contracted HIV/AIDS because of unprotected sex, left abandoned by his friends and family…
Why should we fight and bicker like girls in grade school? Why should we toy at other people, play with their emotions and use them just for sex? When we should unite and be as one. To stand up for each and every homosexual men and women, to fight for our rights to equality, to free the oppressed and educate more the people, to help the ill, to nurture the abused. Why shouldn’t we think of these things instead of lust? These things matters to me most because this is the very foundation of our being.
Why is it that most homosexual men are into sex? Either it’s unprotected, protected, kink, group, one on one, and so on… why are they into such lust fest? Yeah, I’ve met guys who are decent enough not to have sex with me on a first date and I really like that in a man, that only means that he respect my being and he respects me sexually… But why do most of the gay people so promiscuous? What gets them going on having sex day after day? Sure, not all of them are man whores and doesn’t benefit from it financially. Gay man whores get laid and gets the moolah, while ordinary gay men gets only satisfaction (some relationship start from this and ends up sooner because the foundation of their relationship is just based on their partner’s sexual activity.) Or is it only satisfaction that they’re after? I know that they are searching for something to fill the void within them, but why choose sex when they can do a whole lot of other things besides that? Truly, they can’t fill in that ‘void’ with hours and days of sex with other people (stranger or fuck buddies “FUBU”). There is totally more to life than just sex. You don’t always have to crave for sex… why can’t you just respect yourself, your body, and the people you interact with and not always think about sex?I have been living this alternative lifestyle for almost 5 years now, and to tell you honestly, I’ve went through that certain phase in my life that I thought that being gay was just about the sex. Yeah, the first few years of my life being gay were like that… I was blinded by lust. I was succumbed to the everyday temptation of sex. Truthfully I say you this that it (sex) is really that accessible and that easy to just have sex with anybody that you want. But as I live every single day of my life, reflecting on the things that I do, it made me realize that being gay isn’t just about that. I know that I was randy at that time, but certain things made me realize that respect for my sexuality and my being is far more important than that of the satisfaction that I get from having sex with people. I’ve realized that I have to respect people for who they are and not use them to my advantage. I learned to have respect for myself, my body, and most important of all, I learned to respect other people, because you can’t gain respect if you keep on disrespecting others. You have to give respect to other people for you to gain respect. And I think that the same goes with the rule of karma that what you give is what you get in return. I know that we homosexuals are being discriminated and disrespected because most of us are more likely to be promiscuous, so most heterosexuals think that we’re that easy, we’re that loose for them not to respect us. And I think that it’s totally wrong for them to do that. Because whatever we do, whatever our sexuality is, that we deserve to be respected. But in order for us to gain that respect we have to respect our fellow gays and straight brothers and sisters.How could we ever reach that utopian dream of ours, to be united with the heterosexual society, if we keep on disrespecting others?Honestly, there’s more to life than these temporary highs (like what Stacie Orrico said from her song ‘there’s gotta be… more to life.’)Your sexuality is far more important than just enjoying sex casually. Why can’t it be that bicurious guys delve into reading or talking to a peer regarding their curiosity and not find out about their sexuality by engaging themselves into having sex with the same sex?Your intelligence is far more important than having casual sex with other guys. Why not engage in something more cerebral than wasting your time having sex? Yes, sex is great, but only if you do it with the right person. I mean, with your partner, boyfriend, spouse, soul mate or whatever you call your lover or significant other.Try to think of these: that while you waste your time engaging on a one night stand with some cutie you brought over from a gay bar you went to that night… another gay man gets abused by hets and gave him a black eye to remember them by. Discrimination/Hate crime… a teenager gets abandoned by his parents because they couldn’t accept him for who he is… two lovers in an argument, his partner hit him again just like the other night they got into an argument. Domestic violence… A ‘fabuloushly’ gay man shouting at another gay man. Eyeing him, bullying him, judging him for what he is. Discrimination against fellow homosexuals… a homosexual who contracted HIV/AIDS because of unprotected sex, left abandoned by his friends and family…
Why should we fight and bicker like girls in grade school? Why should we toy at other people, play with their emotions and use them just for sex? When we should unite and be as one. To stand up for each and every homosexual men and women, to fight for our rights to equality, to free the oppressed and educate more the people, to help the ill, to nurture the abused. Why shouldn’t we think of these things instead of lust? These things matters to me most because this is the very foundation of our being.
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