SEXed

let's talk about shism... baby.
NO, this is not some hullabaloo that i'm talkin about. and NO, i'm not tellin you this because i'm promiscuous. I'M NOT PROMISCUOUS at all. this is sexual information.
who wouldn't wanna talk about sex? i know a lot of people especially guys out there wanna know more about it. i also know that a lot would like to learn a few things or two about sex. but this time, i won't talk about sex between men and women. i'll talk about sex between men and men. man to man. m2m. yep. because, i know still that there are homosexual people who are not responsible enough when it comes to this. and i hope that all the happy people would learn something after reading this stuff.
i wrote this blog for gay couples who are into intimate and passionate sex only. i mean, couples who are into long term relationships. because i disagree with people having sex with people they barely even know. this is for LOVEMAKING purposes only. but for those individuals who practice sex with different people, please take note of the safety precautions during this act. it doesn't mean that if you're not into relationships that you're not gonna be responsible for yourself and what you do. you always have to be responsible with what you do, especially during sex. you cannot just throw responsibility off to thin air.
also, please RESPECT your partners. they are doing this for you to be happy and satisfied, not to make them into these fcuk machines or whatever. and besides, sex is not the foundation of a relationship, it is LOVE. even for those into one night stands. just because this is a 'one night thing' doesn't mean that you have to disrespect your partner.
*ALWAYS PRACTICE SAFE SEX!
where shall we start?
hmm...
never forget to play. as in FOREPLAY.
this is the intro to the act itself. it may take a few minutes to hours. for me, a sex without a foreplay is boring.
you can take a long warm bath or shower with your partner before having sex. i'd prefer this before anything happens. wash the necessary parts that are most likely involved in this act of sex - penis, pubic area, scrotum, under the balls/perineum, buttocks, buttcrack, a*hole. because you'll never know when germs and other bacteria are settling these areas. hehe.
you may kiss passionately for a minute or two. let his tongue travel through your skin. let him stick his tongue to both of your ears... then down to your neck. then... down to his nipples. you may repeat this for a couple of times. licking, licking, and more licking. caressing of the nipples is necessary, you may suck on it or whatever. just play with those damn nipples while groping on some parts of his body. hahaha!
obtw. never miss the side of your man's underarm, pecs (because the skin on both of these areas are thin, so there are a lot of nerve endings there.), sides, below the belly button...
HEAD. i mean, oral sex.FELLATIO.
[fact:] did you know that the mouth contains more bacteria and other germs than that of the anus?
so before giving a blow job, always make sure that your mouth is clean. NEVER brush before giving a blow job.. if you want your breath to smell good before a date or before you get laid. better brush a few hours before you give a job, or just gargle some mouthwash. because brushing minutes before giving a blow job might cause abrasion on the gums, thus making you prone to sexually transmitted infections (gonorrhea, syphillis, HIV,etc.).
some men produce lotsa precum, and precum can contain these infections if your partner is a carrier. and if you brush or if you have mouthsores of some sort, then better be careful. infected precum might enter these mouthsores and might cause STI's. so never give a head when you have abrasions or mouthsores. or the infections maybe transferred the other way around. the one giving the job may be infected, and the receiver is clear. but oral sex has a less probability of infection transfer, still infection might take place if any of the two are infected. nevertheless, always be careful. practice safe sex.
KINK: if you practice 'sloshing' (pouring of sauce, syrup, or whatever) better be careful where you pour these things. some sauce may cause a stinging sensation on some parts of the body of your partner, the penis for example. be careful not to let any foreign matter enter the urethra (opening of the penis, the part where urine and semen passes through), it might get infected and might cause urethritis. hmm... toothpaste or any mint, or any substance related to this that might cause stinging sensation on the penis; never use this to enhance the sensation when giving a blow job. also, because it might enter the urethra and might get the urethra irritated. never lick or touch the urethra often. specially if your fingers/mouth is dirty because it causes urethritis.
if you want to enhance your 'job' with your partner, then better use some of the products out there at sex shops to increase the sensation during oral sex.
!!!-dental dams protect you from getting STI's during oral sex.
STAY SAFE!
BOUNCE.bounce.bounce those balls.
while giving your partner fellatio, you may play with his scrotum too. or you can tease him by playing with his balls first before giving a head. or vice versa, it still pleasures your partner anyway so wotdaheck. licking his balls is okay, licking the sides of his balls are okay too. it increases the pleasure that your partner gets so never miss the balls. haha.
STAY SAFE!
Gspot?
do men have a g-spot? i think so. it's at the perineum. the area between the scrotum and the anus. you can stimulate this area by lickin. the other g-spot is inside the rectum, near the prostate area. you can stimulate this by rubbing this area, you have to insert your finger inside in order to stimulate it. massage the area gently, never too hard, not too gentle. never insert dirty fingers (long fingernail) and/or dirty things inside the anal cavity. use lubrication when doing the stimulation of the prostate area.
RIMthatHOLEyou...
after you give your partner a job, and after you bounced his balls, you may now proceed to his 'hole'. backdoor stimulation or analingus is famous for gay men. much like its female counterpart for heterosexuals and lesbians-cunnilingus, but this time the anal opening is stimulated. always make sure that the anus and your mouth is clean. or else, it might cause irritation. tongue fucking, is the insertion of the tongue in the anal orifice. use dental dams when doing this, or make sure that both the mouth and anus is clean.
BACKDOORluvin.
anal sex is most likely practiced by homosexual men. it is never an easy sexual act. it involves pain, a lot of pain. so if you have a low tolerance on pain then better skip this. but some men fcuk gently. ask your partner to be gentle if you are experiencing this for the first time. you should have communication with your partner. always, always be gentle. and ALWAYS WEAR CONDOMS when doing this. the anal cavity is not like the vagina. it doesn't have natural lubrication, so better use lubricants intended for anal sex. i advise that you use intimate lubricants than that of lotions/oils/saliva. i don't prefer lotions because it is not for use in anal sex, it is to be used externally, right? some lotions sting too, and it would just add up to the pain that you experience during the pre-insertion of the penis to the anus. oils/oil based lubricants are not advisable too, because oil can break the condoms and might cause slight discomfort. and because oil based lubricants can break condoms, it'll leave you with no protection at all when you do this. saliva, though this is a natural lubricant, and is widely acceptable as a lube; i'm not much a fan of it. if you are to use saliva as your lube, always make sure that your mouth is clean.
[sharing:] my exboifriend and i were eating pizza one time in bed, it has some hotsauce on it. we got intimate and horny that time, that we made out in the middle of our dinner. kissing, petting, foreplay and all... blow job... he was about to enter my world (though i play both roles in bed, i'm more of the submissive type) when i remembered that we had no lube. so he used my saliva as lube; after eating that pizza with hotsauce... dang! i was in pain when he was doin me that we had to stop and just continued to eat our dinner... never use dirty saliva. hahaha!
it is important that you always use condoms when doing anal sex, since you really can't clean it (the rectum) when you take a shower, shiztty particles are still stuck there... somewhere. because if you don't use condoms, these minute shiztty particles might enter the urethra of the top (the dominating partner). so barebacking isn't really advised. better use protection, use CONDOMS.
always be safe when having sex with your partner.