confused

man i'm no hater but these pretentious people push me to the limit.
why do bisexual men or some of those 'discreet gay men' keep on hatin 'em effeminate guys, or even those trannies. i mean, if you really know the meaning of your sexuality then you don't have to discriminate. i know that you don't pursue guys who are effeminate, but at least you have to be friendly enough to tell them. you don't always have to shove them away like they're any different from you. if you really are man enough, then you'd know how to treat a person right. if you've really got the balls, then you know how to respect your fellow being. yeah, they are no different from you. she's a lesbian, he's gay (screaming or discreet), you're bisexual, they're transexual. we are all alike, so don't depart yourself from the so-called 'third sex'. you are no different from us. i know that the human behaviour is full of complexities. you don't have to make it any more difficult.
fuck. don't ever tell me that you're straight while you tell others that you are bisexual.
i don't have the right to dictate you your sexuality, and i know that you are of right age to realize your real sexuality. if you are over 17 then your 'confusion stage' is just starting or you've set yourself of your sexuality, then you're excused. my god, if you are already 25 and you're still confused then figure out its effects on you psychologically.
you should at least have a research, talk to various kinds of people-people who understands. ask them your questions, opinions. debate not masturbate with them. engaging in sex never sets someone's sexuality, you'll still end up confused. it's not sex. just ask yourself and reflect.